What are you struggling with in your life? What would you like to have instead?
12.06.2025 00:43
P.S. There is a reason to write an answer after such a long time and that is one of my office people has switched on notification whenever I post an answer on Quora and when she enquired why am I not writing anymore, I felt that not all goes in vain, some stays!
I have decreased my usage of Quora for the past 4–5 months simply ( and I will be blunt) there is no appreciation or genuine liking of answers within the people who read. And I feel due to Quora’s logarithm, answers don't reach or is brought to attention therefore the answers get stagnated and somehow I feel discouraged to write. Trust me writing on Quora takes time and patience. And somehow I think my life is not that exciting or anything worthwhile happens that I can pen down. Nobody would like to read about my mundane day-to-day activities. No one does! And there are no experiences to share at all. I have become very boring and too an extent lazy that I don't push myself to do anything nor I feel tempted to write on Quora. My life is as same as the unending and stagnated traffic in OMR, Chennai.
Struggles are real and to overcome those it needs time. At the age of 30+, I need to figure out things and bring them to a proper line to understand what I need to do or prioritise.
For me ‘struggling’ will be a big word, I would like to state I am trying to cope with the current situation.
Firstly, to address the elephant in the room, I have gained a good amount of weight and it is not a good sign if you ask me. Why? Because people suffering from PCOS or any hormonal issue shouldn't be gaining weight. And no matter, how much time I spend on doing yoga or going for a 30–45 minute walk, is not solving the issue. I was going through my earlier Quora answer about my weight loss or how I try to stay fit, it seems like a distant affair which I am not able to grasp or implement in my life. Like I have changed a lot in these few years.
Secondly, my shift of offices. Now I am travelling 21 kms up & down, 5 days a week and I am dead tired the moment I reach home. Work-wise, I love coming to this new office as the workflow is quite different from what I have done (and there is so much to learn) but the travelling is quite a challenge. But if you ask me, I will never disclose or bleat saying that I get dead tired!